How can I get him to love me? Sounds all too familiar, doesn’t it? Many of us reach a point in our relationship when we realize that even though we’ve fallen head over heels for our guy, he may not be feeling exactly the same thing. If you’ve been sitting idly by hoping that fate will step in and make him fall head over heels for you, you’re wasting your time. You can make a man want you more and more if you understand exactly how to appeal to the triggers within his heart.
When I was asking myself the question of how can I get him to love me, I first considered adopting qualities that I knew he found attractive. This is actually a common mistake that women make when they are trying to capture the heart of a man they adore. Men like independent thinkers. They find you much more attractive if you are the person you want to be, as opposed to someone you think your man wants. Don’t change who you are to accommodate him. Instead take on the attitude that you’re perfect exactly as you are. If you believe it, he’ll start believing it too so no making excuses for anything about yourself.
Men love women who have full lives outside of their relationships. Always stay connected to friends and focus on your career too. Never give up a hobby or interest in favor of spending time with your man. Men don’t want to be with women who rearrange their lives to accommodate them. They want to be with women who make them work for their affection. He doesn’t want you to change your schedule around to ensure you have time with him, instead he prefers it if he feels as though he’s stealing you away from your life at times. Never lose sight of your own life when you are trying to build a stronger connection with a man.
Also, try and stay a bit mysterious when you are in a relationship. Men love learning new things about the woman they are with. Don’t tell him everything about yourself and don’t always be available when he’s trying to find you. It’s that old idea of playing hard to get. We hear so much about it, because it works if used properly. He wants to feel as though he’s learning about you little bit by little bit. It makes you irresistible to him. Hold out a little and it will pull him in even more.
